Going to court is a stressful experience. If you are not well versed in the laws of the court room then it can be mentally and emotionally draining. Add to this the fact you are trying to sort out a dispute within your family and you have a scenario that can take a heavy toll on your spirit.
If you find that your life has arrived at this ambiguous area of law rules meets family issues, then it may be wise to stop and consider what you are going through emotionally.
Issues that you have with your family members are being thrust unashamedly into the eyes of a judge. Having your personal life put on display in this way is going to be uncomfortable for anyone. Consider how you feel about this truly.
Asking yourself how you feel about this honestly can add a cleaner perspective to a perhaps dirty period of your life.